Was i right to freak out on my "friend" today?

Hey i totally understand the frustration that you are feeling, but the silent treatment isn't really going to help anyone. your best bet is to talk to her tell her what's bothering you and see if she changes the way shes explains things to you when you ask as well as anything else. If after talking to her she still doesn't change then she's not a very nice friend and not really worth hanging around with. You want to surround your self with people who don't make you feel bad about yourself or anything else. Hope that helps^_^